Getting the most out of chat
Chat modes, writing style, models and memory, and the habits that make conversations feel real.
Written by the fuckd.ai team ·
Chats get better the more you shape them. This guide covers the settings that change how a character writes, how memory works, and the small habits that make conversations feel real.
Open the chat menu
Press the chat menu button at the top of any chat to open its settings. You can set things for This Chat only, or change your Default so every chat starts that way. Press Use defaults to clear a chat's own settings.
Chat Mode: Texting or Roleplay
Texting: quick back-and-forth, the way a real DM thread reads.
Roleplay: immersive scenes with narrated action and description.
Switch whenever you like. The same character can text you in the afternoon and play out a scene at night.
Writing Style
Four sliders control how they write. The middle setting (Balanced, or Playful for Lust Level) is a good place to start.
Reply Length: from a single line to novel-length. Longer replies take longer to arrive.
Creativity: from predictable and easy to steer, to wild and full of surprises. Very high settings can wander off.
Initiative: from following your lead, to taking over and running the scene.
Lust Level: from warm and affectionate, through flirty, to explicit from the first line. At Playful, they're flirty by default and explicit when you go there.
Reply Format
Choose how replies are laid out: actions in italics or plain text, speech in quotes or not, inner thoughts shown or hidden, first or third person narration, and how many emoji. There's a live preview as you change them. Narration is best-effort: some models drift between replies.
Chat models
Pick the AI model that writes the replies. Each has its own voice: some are vivid and story-friendly, some punchy and playful, some better at holding long scenes. Standard models are quick for everyday replies. Advanced models give richer writing and a longer memory. Most models need a membership, and a few, marked Tier 2+, are only available on Deluxe.
Not happy with a reply? Press regenerate to get a different one (once per message), or turn on Suggested replies for tap-to-send ideas after each reply.
Memory
After about 20 messages, the character starts saving important details from your chats automatically. That's how they remember your name, your job and what happened last time. Open Memory in the chat menu to see what they've saved.
Tips for better chats
Give them something to react to. "Hey" gets "hey" back. A detail, a question or an action gives them a scene to work with.
Write actions in roleplay. Describing what you do moves the scene along:
*I pull you closer by the hand*.Steer gently. If a scene goes somewhere you don't want, say so in the chat or change their Initiative and Lust Level.
Edit your own message if they misread you, then regenerate their reply.
Use a Persona so they know who you are. See What are Personas?
Photos, videos and voice in chat
Type
show mefollowed by what you want to see, switch the message bar to Image, or open the studio to pick a pose, outfit and scene. See How to write image prompts.Press Make Video on any photo to animate it.
Press Generate Voice on a reply to hear it, or call them. See How do voice calls and voice messages work?
Starting over
Reset Chat removes all messages and memories with that character but keeps the chat in your list.
Delete Chat removes the whole conversation.
Neither can be undone.
Related articles
- How to create a character
A step-by-step guide to the character creator, and the choices that matter most for chat and images.
- How do I edit or delete my character?
What you can change, when a character is locked, and how to delete one.
- What are Personas?
Tell characters who you are, so they treat you as that person in every chat.
- How do group chats work?
Chat with up to three characters at once, and generate photos of them together.